Some time ago I read through a discussion regarding coming out to wives, etc. In one post the Sister noted that she did not need to come out to people as her wife would just blurt it out.

I am extremely lucky as I have a very supportive wife even though I only came out to her recently. I mentioned the "blurting out" and we had a giggle as she is a top notch blurter. Anyway, two months on and my children, Pip's close friends and a number of other people know I am Trans Fem and have all accepted it as fine. Mind you Pip is a great ally and great explainer.

So, if your wife is supporting you, then everything in a good marriage put her in charge!

Joy