The Beaumont Society Forum and Chat Policy

We wish to encourage lively debate and welcome well-intended banter and humour in our forums. We do not wish to be over-prescriptive with forum rules; however, we ask everyone posting to be mindful of offending or hurting others using the forums.

Here are our forum guidelines:

Starting New Topics

• Before starting a new topic, please check that you are not duplicating an existing one use the search function if necessary);
• Please take time to place your topic into the right category;
• Use a title that relates to and explains your topic; for example, rather than ‘I need help!’ use ‘Advice required about ….. ‘

Engaging in Discussions

• Respect the opinions of others, even if you disagree strongly.
• When participating in debates, please take time to engage in the argument and not attack or make derogatory remarks about other contributors. For example, rather than, ‘You are stupid to say …’ or ‘That’s a stupid point of view,’ use wording such as ‘I disagree because …’
• We welcome humour and banter; however, be mindful of comments that may offend, especially if you are engaging with someone you do not know personally; if in doubt, err on the side of caution.
• When you get things wrong, be willing to apologise; be ready to accept apologies from others, too.

The Following Is Not Allowed

• Racism, sexism, homophobia and transphobia;
• Repeated posts with the same or similar content (spam);
• Inciting violence (or links which incite violence);
• Pornographic material (or links which display pornographic material);
• Posting adverts for commercial enterprises or gain.

The Following Should Be Followed

• When quoting others (which includes normally copyrighted material used as part of a discussion), please use quote marks and attribute the quote concerning the author, the publication (newspaper, book, website, social media etc.) and the date;
• If posting pictures, please ensure that the pictures are either in the public domain or that you have permission from the copyright owner (if not you) before posting.

Chat Room Guidelines

1.  Be Respectful: Treat all members with respect. Disparaging or abusive comments will not be tolerated.
2. Think Before You Post: Before sending a message, ask yourself if it is helpful and kind. Constructive feedback is welcome, but it should be delivered with empathy and respect
3. No Disparaging Remarks: Avoid making negative or hurtful comments about others. Focus on positive and supportive interactions
4. Zero Tolerance for Abuse: Any form of abusive language, harassment, or bullying is strictly prohibited. Violators will be removed from the chat room.
5. Encourage Positivity: Strive to create a positive and inclusive environment. Support and uplift your fellow members.
6. Respect Privacy: Do not share personal information about yourself or others without consent. Respect everyone’s privacy.
7. Stay On Topic: Keep discussions relevant to the chat room’s purpose. Off-topic conversations should be taken to private messages or appropriate channels.
8. Report Issues: If you encounter any issues or see someone violating these guidelines, please report it to immediately.

Disputes

As a community with a range of personalities, disputes will inevitably happen. Moderators may suspend or close a forum topic and/or edit or remove posts. They may also advise members about forum and/or chatroom behaviour. In extreme cases, or when advice is repeatedly ignored, moderators can ban people from the forums or the entire members’ website.

Last updated: 05/11/2024