Lynne, I love your list of 27 Things to Avoid. You've given us a great list of things to spot for a new drinking game when we're out with the trans folk or at a Pride. It's double glugs for spotting a case of "Number 15, giving the world glimpses of low-hanging fruit, clutching a pint and a cigarette."

Rona would probably think I was very immature, but hey, being trans, nonbinary or whatever is a performance! And when you're older, you've got more material.

So, older trans people, which iconic cis woman is your trans archetype? Who brings out your inner Lily Savage? Barbara Windsor? Joan of Arc? Joan Collins? Joanna Lumley? Barbara Cartland? Margaret Thatcher with a sense of humour (especially now, with our lovely new government to say mocking things about?) Or someone else? We need to know!

D xxx